Enjoy Being Single While Preparing for Love

In the pursuit for love you must first tap into the source of it and rather than looking outside of yourself wishing and hoping for others to love you, look inside and find where it has resided all along.

Here’s the thing, when you so badly want to be loved and yet you are not yet being love yourself, it its nearly impossible to find it. When you are single you have an opportunity to create your life - to practice embracing the present moment and live life fully and by your terms. This is such a great time for you to take the time to really know yourself deeply and intimately, accept you fully - all of you, improve the relationships that exist and create a loving and supportive network.

This is the time to create your life’s vision, discover your passions and start living them, understand your purpose and what makes you tick. This is the time to begin to strategically create and attract the life and love that you desire.

This is the time to define your requirements for a partner. You decide with conscious clarity how you want to relate and be treated in a relationship. You decide what values are the most important to you and what features are non-negotiable in order for you to know that a person is the right one for you in a relationship. You create the environment in which you know you will thrive and can enjoy life long sustaining love.

Enjoy the relationships that exist now, dwell in the possibilities, revel in the time alone and create some time that you are willing to share with the right partner for you.

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